How you are treated or how you perceive another person is ALWAYS a YOU problem and I'll tell you why.
You are the master and keeper of your personal inner domain and space. If things are not operating optimally (or somewhat close to it) in that inner domain and space, the balance of your inner and outer world will be lacking and things outside of you are going to reflect the negativity that's festering inside of you. And, bitch, you're 100% the common denominator. K! Love you, bye, the mirror is calling you!
The way you are treated is how you are ALLOWING yourself to be treated. And how you perceive other people happens in 2 ways typically. It's either through your dirty ass lense since your inner world is not operating optimally. And believe me, VERY few people, myself included, have an optimally operating inner world. Or that person is showing up as a mirror for you, figuratively, so to speak, reflecting back to you all the things you don't like about yourself. That's a hard one to face! Typically when you don't like someone or they trigger the shit out of you, they are a perfect reflection of what you don't like very much about yourself! But who REALLY wants to admit that to themselves, let alone anyone else. This is one of the truest, and most unpopular viewpoints.
Stop for a moment, think about someone you didn't like or currently don't like for a trivial reason. Maybe even think back to high school or jr. high in your mind! Look at what you do not, or did not like about that person, pick it apart a bit. Then take a cold HARD, honest look at yourself and ask yourself, what part of me has that trait that I did not like in this other person? In any way, shape or form. It won't be exact, because we are all individuals, but I'd be willing to bet money that if you're willing to be transparently honest with yourself, you'd find that some semblance of that ugly trait exists in you in some form. Just saying!
Quick reminder... There's nothing wrong with them or with you for posessing that ugly trait! It's part of your shadow self and accepting and loving all the ugliness in your shadow self is a VERY important step in anyone's self-love journey!
To wrap this up, I want to reiterate my point. Everything is energy. You are energy and the energy you create in your own inner world shapes the energy you attract to yourself, be it a material item, a job, extra money OR how someone you don't particularly click with treats you in your interactions with them. My point here is, clean up your own energy so you can better filter other people's bull shit cause we ALL have our own individual brands of bull shit and don't particularly need to take on anyone else's! Food for thought!
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